Baby blues

Monday, December 09, 2013

Issit just me, issit the hormones, is it the confinement lady?

At this point of time, I would say it  is the confiment lady.

Looking at mother cats, when they gave birth, u are supposed to let mother cat rest without removing her baby away from her
.. Mummy gets very depressed when they are kept away from their young. The female animals attacks on human are more often than not because mother was protecting their young.

So how can I not be depressed when I m kept away from my baby?

My confiment lady is too extreme to the extent She doesn't let me touch my own baby. I see my baby less than 1hour daily. I sweep her up, she would come and take over.
I wanna hug her to sleep, jennah sleep Le. She ask my put down and chase me awau. Den she pick her up and did the bloody same thing I was doing. Then the fxk u ask me to put my baby down?  I laboured for hours to give birth to my baby so I can hold her in my arms. And now I have this fxk auntie standing Btw me and my own baby?

I am firm on a few points now.

Next baby I m doing the ang mo style kangaroo care. No one is standing between me and my baby.
I m so not having this auntie ever and will NOT recommend her to any one else.

She saying a 1wk old new mummy fat aside, she doesn't cook tonic soup, she doesn't mop the house, just the kitchen. She makes my husband run Ard the whole place buying one thing at a time. She keep complaining about my cat. Who have done nothing to her or the baby.

Maxie will be just sitting away in the living and she be feeding the baby in the room. And she would say 'cat is going to steal your milk',  or if the baby is crying hard, she would go, 'who bully you, oh, let's go beat the cat, beat the cat OK!'

Tmd.  Next time I feed the baby, I m going to say, auntie gonna come and steal your food, auntie bad bad..  And see how she feels.

My cat is my family. You don't come in here and say my family. 

Speaking of which, she was all Smiley with my auntie and family members. After they left, she says, they all so fat, of cos need Aircon. Tmd... In front of me.... Tmd...

I broke down and cried Ytd when she took my baby from me. I feel so sad I can't be with my baby, she is just next door but someone keeps snatching her away.

I m just in my room now. To myself. Away from everything and everyone feeling dam sorry for myself. I need to mob abit. I don't wanna go out.

Labels: Baby blues, Jennah

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Baby blues

Monday, December 09, 2013

Issit just me, issit the hormones, is it the confinement lady?

At this point of time, I would say it  is the confiment lady.

Looking at mother cats, when they gave birth, u are supposed to let mother cat rest without removing her baby away from her
.. Mummy gets very depressed when they are kept away from their young. The female animals attacks on human are more often than not because mother was protecting their young.

So how can I not be depressed when I m kept away from my baby?

My confiment lady is too extreme to the extent She doesn't let me touch my own baby. I see my baby less than 1hour daily. I sweep her up, she would come and take over.
I wanna hug her to sleep, jennah sleep Le. She ask my put down and chase me awau. Den she pick her up and did the bloody same thing I was doing. Then the fxk u ask me to put my baby down?  I laboured for hours to give birth to my baby so I can hold her in my arms. And now I have this fxk auntie standing Btw me and my own baby?

I am firm on a few points now.

Next baby I m doing the ang mo style kangaroo care. No one is standing between me and my baby.
I m so not having this auntie ever and will NOT recommend her to any one else.

She saying a 1wk old new mummy fat aside, she doesn't cook tonic soup, she doesn't mop the house, just the kitchen. She makes my husband run Ard the whole place buying one thing at a time. She keep complaining about my cat. Who have done nothing to her or the baby.

Maxie will be just sitting away in the living and she be feeding the baby in the room. And she would say 'cat is going to steal your milk',  or if the baby is crying hard, she would go, 'who bully you, oh, let's go beat the cat, beat the cat OK!'

Tmd.  Next time I feed the baby, I m going to say, auntie gonna come and steal your food, auntie bad bad..  And see how she feels.

My cat is my family. You don't come in here and say my family. 

Speaking of which, she was all Smiley with my auntie and family members. After they left, she says, they all so fat, of cos need Aircon. Tmd... In front of me.... Tmd...

I broke down and cried Ytd when she took my baby from me. I feel so sad I can't be with my baby, she is just next door but someone keeps snatching her away.

I m just in my room now. To myself. Away from everything and everyone feeling dam sorry for myself. I need to mob abit. I don't wanna go out.

Labels: Baby blues, Jennah

11:31 AM | back to top